Make fopen_temporary and fopen_temporary_label unlocked

This is partially a refactoring, but also makes many more places use
unlocked operations implicitly, i.e. all users of fopen_temporary().
AFAICT, the uses are always for short-lived files which are not shared
externally, and are just used within the same context. Locking is not
necessary.

src/basic/process-util.c

@@ -8,7 +8,6 @@
 #include <signal.h>
 #include <stdbool.h>
 #include <stdio.h>
-#include <stdio_ext.h>
 #include <stdlib.h>
 #include <string.h>
 #include <sys/mman.h>