hostname-util: flagsify hostname_is_valid(), drop machine_name_is_valid()

Let's clean up hostname_is_valid() a bit: let's turn the second boolean
argument into a more explanatory flags field, and add a flag that
accepts the special name ".host" as valid. This is useful for the
container logic, where the special hostname ".host" refers to the "root
container", i.e. the host system itself, and can be specified at various
places.

let's also get rid of machine_name_is_valid(). It was just an alias,
which is confusing and even more so now that we have the flags param.

src/basic/util.c

@@ -165,7 +165,7 @@ int container_get_leader(const char *machine, pid_t *pid) {
                 return 0;
         }
 
-        if (!machine_name_is_valid(machine))
+        if (!hostname_is_valid(machine, 0))
                 return -EINVAL;
 
         p = strjoina("/run/systemd/machines/", machine);