bpf: rework how we keep track and attach cgroup bpf programs

So, the kernel's management of cgroup/BPF programs is a bit misdesigned:
if you attach a BPF program to a cgroup and close the fd for it it will
stay pinned to the cgroup with no chance of ever removing it again (or
otherwise getting ahold of it again), because the fd is used for
selecting which BPF program to detach. The only way to get rid of the
program again is to destroy the cgroup itself.

This is particularly bad for root the cgroup (and in fact any other
cgroup that we cannot realistically remove during runtime, such as
/system.slice, /init.scope or /system.slice/dbus.service) as getting rid
of the program only works by rebooting the system.

To counter this let's closely keep track to which cgroup a BPF program
is attached and let's implicitly detach the BPF program when we are
about to close the BPF fd.

This hence changes the bpf_program_cgroup_attach() function to track
where we attached the program and changes bpf_program_cgroup_detach() to
use this information. Moreover bpf_program_unref() will now implicitly
call bpf_program_cgroup_detach().

In order to simplify things, bpf_program_cgroup_attach() will now
implicitly invoke bpf_program_load_kernel() when necessary, simplifying
the caller's side.

Finally, this adds proper reference counting to BPF programs. This
is useful for working with two BPF programs in parallel: the BPF program
we are preparing for installation and the BPF program we so far
installed, shortening the window when we detach the old one and reattach
the new one.

src/basic/bpf-program.h

@@ -32,22 +32,29 @@
 typedef struct BPFProgram BPFProgram;
 
 struct BPFProgram {
+        unsigned n_ref;
+
         int kernel_fd;
         uint32_t prog_type;
 
         size_t n_instructions;
         size_t allocated;
         struct bpf_insn *instructions;
+
+        char *attached_path;
+        int attached_type;
+        uint32_t attached_flags;
 };
 
 int bpf_program_new(uint32_t prog_type, BPFProgram **ret);
 BPFProgram *bpf_program_unref(BPFProgram *p);
+BPFProgram *bpf_program_ref(BPFProgram *p);
 
 int bpf_program_add_instructions(BPFProgram *p, const struct bpf_insn *insn, size_t count);
 int bpf_program_load_kernel(BPFProgram *p, char *log_buf, size_t log_size);
 
 int bpf_program_cgroup_attach(BPFProgram *p, int type, const char *path, uint32_t flags);
-int bpf_program_cgroup_detach(BPFProgram *p, int type, const char *path);
+int bpf_program_cgroup_detach(BPFProgram *p);
 
 int bpf_map_new(enum bpf_map_type type, size_t key_size, size_t value_size, size_t max_entries, uint32_t flags);
 int bpf_map_update_element(int fd, const void *key, void *value);