strstrafter() is like strstr() but returns a pointer to the first
character *after* the found substring, not on the substring itself.
Quite often this is what we actually want.
Inspired by #27267 I think it makes sense to add a helper for this,
to avoid the potentially fragile manual pointer increment afterwards.
Let's define two helpers strdupa_safe() + strndupa_safe() which do the
same as their non-safe counterparts, except that they abort if called
with allocations larger than ALLOCA_MAX.
This should ensure that all our alloca() based allocations are subject
to this limit.
afaics glibc offers three alloca() based APIs: alloca() itself,
strndupa() + strdupa(). With this we have now replacements for all of
them, that take the limit into account.