Let's not leak details from src/shared and src/libsystemd into
src/basic, even though you can't actually do anything useful with
just forward declarations from src/shared.
The sd-forward.h header is put in src/libsystemd/sd-common as we
don't have a directory for shared internal headers for libsystemd
yet.
Let's also rename forward.h to basic-forward.h to keep things
self-explanatory.
When adding unprivileged nspawn support we don't really want a global
lock file, since we cannot even access the dir they are stored in, hence
make the concept optional.
Some minor other modernizations.
This is just like lock_generic(), but applies the lock with a timeout.
This requires jumping through some hoops by executing things in a child
process, so that we can abort if necessary via a timer. Linux after all
has no native way to take file locks with a timeout.